Thailand Alumni

Thailand
November 2004

Sunday November 21st
Sunday was a ragged affair. Compromised of sleepless night made for a trying day. Despite this obstacle, the cultural infusion due to the gracious kindness of the monks, made for an unforgettable day. The monks gave us cultural and historical insight to the ancient temples and were better guides than we could have hoped for. It made for many Kodak moments. Mammee’s house provided the most filling foods and set an excellent precedent of what to expect for the rest of the week. All in all, I was grateful for the day, but glad to see my bed.
-- Scott Baker, Colorado

Friday November 26th
Friday was the last full day at Mammie’s house. In retrospect, this week has been surreal, and the experience has been unbelievably enriching. This last day was more relaxed than the rest and made for much playtime and laughter, perhaps tp balance the emotionally trying departure. The monks exposed their palette to some western flair and challenged the volunteers to test their teamwork and skills. Laughter was irresistibly uncontrollably. Apparently the “krathongs” I worked on later in the day will bring me luck in acquiring a male companion. We’ll see. The day ended with a goodbye ceremony and a few tears. However, I am filled with more gratitude than sorrow for the gift I’ve been given through this volunteering endeavor. I hope to litter my future with many more.
-- Scott Baker, Colorado

November 20th-27th 2004
For me it was one of the most special and openhearted weeks of my week. It held many surprises such as the level of Thai generosity, the value they place on fun, the loyalty to their living, and how much dedication of one can help many. I feel very lucky to have been given such insight into Thailand.

Mammie’s house is in Wang Noi, a steep contrast to the busyness and pollution of Bangkok. It lies between 2 canals and is a group of traditional wooden dwellings. We slept every night, Thai style, on a floor mat and we woke every morning to Radio Wang Noi! It was so loud that it was a wake up call for the whole village!

Some of my most special and personal memories include all the joking and questions shared with the family, the volunteers, and the monks. Jokes about language, my clumsiness (Sara sam sam), which robe was green and which orange, the extent to which the monks love pop music and candy. But also more serious insights into Buddhism, or mammie’s ability to motivate all at the foundation. Meeting the orphans and hearing of their self-sufficiency, it puts your own childhood into perspective. We met so many wonderful children; one whose smiles and laughter transcended language barriers, the patience with which they helped build reed animals and the fun of all the games, dances, and songs we participated in together.

The last evening was made all the more special by Phia’s and Tiger’s crazy radio DJ impression. Each of us received a name sash; Miss Camera, Mr. Popular, Miss Patron, Miss Baby face, and an attentive speech. The effect of it all was astonishing and only bettered by the monk’s personal gifts to us, a good luck chart. I think those moments of chanting will be seared across all of our minds for a long time. Thank you Thailand and its wonderful people, the smallness of our help does not compare with the greatness of your gift.
-- Sarah Shaw, London, England

Saturday, November 20th (Arrival day in BKK at 1:30 am)
I stayed at the Miracle Grand Hotel about 1 mile from the airport. At 12:30 pm, I met Sarah and Scott at the train station across from the airport. Along were 2 people to take us to Mammie’s house. About half an hour drive in the back of a small truck with a camper shell on it. The weather was sunny and warm, but not too bad. Mammie’s place consists of 5 buildings and the kitchen, and dining table in between. Each building is one big room made up for sleeping with one bathroom. A mosquito net hangs over the ‘bed’ (a very thin pad with a sheet and several pillows), no solid walls, and a wood floor. The bathroom is a toilet and 2 containers with water (one to flush the toilet) the other you scoop the water to wash yourself. A cement floor, a few nails in the walls, a mirror and a small shelf with a doily. A small canal on both sides of the property with not much water in then, and the other sided are rice fields, with lots of dogs and cats. We’re excited about being here with wonderful friendly people. A temple with a University for the monks, and novice monks is nearby. Several stopped by to meet and greet us. A wonderful meal, lots of talking and laughing until we turned in early to look forward to this great experience.
-- Reinhilde Schmid, California

Wednesday, November 23rd
Again early rise at 5:30am, in the car by 6:00 am to go to the foundation to visit the private school. The tuition helps fund some of the projects. As always plenty of good food to eat in the car. At 8:00am we get picked up to start interacting with different classes, one of us per class. The children range in age from 5-10. They were very curious and asked lots of questions. “What is your name?” “Where do you live?” “How old are you?” We stopped by 3 different classrooms. At about noon, some of the students performed different dances they had learned for us. We were asked to join in and also sing a song for them, which was a blast. Then it was lunchtime. All the children were served a hot lunch and several went back for 2nds and even 3rds. All of the children wanted to write down our names for each of them, some wanted us to sign as well and our phone numbers and email addresses. I guess we are “stars”. In the afternoon we played games with the classes, such as sack hop, and water balloon races. We were all treated like VIP’s. At 3 pm we headed back to the house.
-- Reinhilde Schmid, California

Tuesday
Loi Kratong song day- having the homeless boys sing this to us and accept our Thai mispronunciations with such humor and grace!

November’s full moon shine, Loi Kratang
And the water high up in the rivers
And one Kratong
Loi Kratong is here
And every where’s full of cheer
Come together at one Kratong
As we push away
Away we pray, away we pray
We will see a better day

It put Prapayon’s words in the morning into a new perspective- never waste a minute.
-- Grace Yoon, Canada

Just a quick note about the Thailand trip through Globeaware. I think it was a terrific experience, exhilarating, exciting and trying all at once. Mamee and her family could not have been more accommodating, patient and friendly. Their hospitality was truly touching. They met me at the Airport despite the 4 hour delay. The food was wonderful and plentiful. P'chitai (sp) was a joy to be with. He taught me a lot about Thai culture and language. The tour of Wat Suan Kaew was a real eye-opener, akin to Mother Theresa's early works in Calcutta I would imagine.

Just like in the tour notes I guess there's a Western tendency towards accomplishment, that the volunteer expects to see real before/after results of their labors by weeks' end. And while it would have been rewarding to see the fruits of a major project such as the completion of a new building I still feel the time spent there was valuable and that the work to which I was assigned had value, whether it was helping with the recent newsletter, translation assistance, English tutoring, loading supplies, Red Cross assistance, cultural exchange with local citizens, etc.

Mamee was a true inspiration. She more than lived up to the bio provided by Globeaware. I don't know how she does it all. If I had the opportunity to do it again I would maybe pick an October/November trip since it took a while to acclimate to the temperatures during my stay --Matt O'Riley

Did this program change how you view your own culture, and if so, how? Yes, I look at people with more compassion. I learned to be kinder to people.
Describe any surprises you learned about the culture you visited (I.e. can't believe how much kids understand even when I don't sign) The big surprise was how much the people of Thailand did not want to start an argument. So much that they would agree with you, but it really wasn’t what they wanted.
What did you like the most on the program I loved the opportunity to get the first hand chance to interact with the monks. To learn about Buddhism. Everything in the program was something that you wouldn’t be able to get in a vacation tour, which is something that I really loved.
Anything else you'd like to share with us? The experience for me was absolutely wonderful. It was a great way to truly experience Thailand and the beautiful people in it. Everyday was full of magic.
-- Robyn Liston

Did you like the food and did you get enough? More than enough
Tell us your thoughts about the accommodation and anything you'd like to change. I thought that Mammee’s house was wonderful.
Did this program change how you view your own culture, and if so, how? Everyone was so incredibly open and accommodating. They do so much with so less than we do in America.
Describe any surprises you learned about the culture you visited (I.e. can't believe how much kids understand even when I don't sign) That English is the official second language , and that everyone treated me with such importance.
What did you like the most on the program. The kids, the monks, and mammee’s
-- Scott Baker

Did this program change how you view your own culture, and if so, how? I think more US residents need to get out and meet other people of the world.
Describe any surprises you learned about the culture you visited (I.e. can't believe how much kids understand even when I don't sign) I was continually amazed by the happiness that seemed so sincere emanating from every one that I met. The contrast of poverty and the beauty of the Shrines which were everywhere.
--Terry Westerman

Do you feel your work project was meaningful Yes, I felt I made an impact.
Did you like the food and did you get enough? The food was excellent and there was always plenty.
Tell us your thoughts about the accommodation and anything you'd like to changeThe Accomodations were as expected. If anything was changed, the experience would not be true Thai culture.
Did this program change how you view your own culture, and if so, how? Yes, because ot allowed me to step outside my comfort zone and plunge head first into a culture completely opposite mine.
Describe any surprises you learned about the culture you visited (I.e. can't believe how much kids understand even when I don't sign) The monks were very in tune with American entertainment. It was fun during free time to discuss current movies and stars.
--Tracy Harrison